How to keep a good & long relationship ?
Marriage is a success when u work at it.
Eg. wife is like flower, needs nurturing. Marriage will nv be smooth all the time.
we have to LISTEN to God and your spouse!!
To nourish - feed n bring to maturing, help find their fulfillment in the purpose of God
humbling down, see his wife more impt than him being the pastor.
Divorce
Initially on the matrimony, couples have made vow to each other, to LOVE, HONOUR and bring JOY to one another and when that VOW is not fulfilled, it becomes a curse.
"My word is my bond" neither of us out there wanna be curse right ?!
Honour your words! communicate to one another.
In front of God,man n woman are e same.
How to resolve arguements
Turn to God if both party and hard header
Adultery of the heart is as serious as committing adultery physically!
God made us attractive to the opposite sex.
the difficult is that for many people that got themselves into such situation, they have to go backwards n ask, why is this happening ?
Because e couple is bored with the daily routine. Nothing special, different. the older you get, the more difficult it is. Youu dun wanna change. however,in a rs,1 peter 3:7, no matter how much a man pleads to God to change his wife, he will not. a man is sowing seed of divorce in relationship when he does not honor his wife.
That you cannot have an intimate marriage w/o working at it.
A couple must learn to communicate. Guys n girls are very different, think differently.
(When a woman communicate, she does it from the heart but a man does it from the head.)
Do you keep secrets from ur partner ? Nope!
Heart to heart talk builds relationship!
A couple who prays together stays together.
Try THIS
Morning before breakfast : Bring your wife a cup of tea, go throught the bible together. Pray for your love ones, each other.
Night before you turn in : Thank God in prayers together to end the day.
Sat : Set time to communicate with your spouse.
eg. Journal time, discuss with each other revelations revealed and visions and dreams from God.
You gotta pray with your spouse!
Iron sharpens iron.
COMAT COmmunication
Cliche
Other people
Myself
Affection
Total openness & honesty
Temptation
Don't give excuse and be tempted by other women other there but the husband gotta make wife e queen, make her pretty,attractive so that he will be tempted by the wife!!
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Matt 24 & 25
community work : if u feed these poor, ur feeding Me
value of every Christian: do to others, ur doing unto Me
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In the bible it says: its not good for man to be alone
"We should create a new family union because u learn most of ur character when u have children, people w/o children don't belief in themself. Have more kids,it due in ur character for your next generation.
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Put the interest of others fers, look for advice in e bible, it will be solve!
We r accountable to God!
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The needs of men n women is not to demanding but compromised n accomodate n satisfy your spouse!
Go the extra mile for them cause when God says, "1 km, go 2km"
Be always prepared to go the extra mile.
Its about LOVING one more time, FORGIVE one time.
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When is enough enough for guys who doesnt repent? Should the lady not forgive ?
Unfaithfulness.
Why is he unsatisfied at home ? The problem lies with the men,not the women.
Ezkel: Story of the baby.
Beautiful not because of yourself but I put love into you.
A man poured in words of affirmation and nurture her,therefore she is able to be poise and confident, and she walk with grace.
MARRIAGE IS A RELATIONSHIP OF EQUALS
MAN NEEDS TO STOP PUTTING THEIR WIVES DOWN, LIFT HER UP. MAKING HER ATTRACTIVE.
CHILDREN WILL FOLLOW PARENTS.
THE HOME IS WHERE WE MOULD SOCIETY FROM.
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TIP of the day:
Women prefers quality time.
They like eye contact, total undivided attention.
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A COUPLE MUST HAVE THE SAME HEART FOR GOD, same vision, same spiritual affinity. So that we can adjust the lifestyle according to God's word.
A couple needs to build friendship with each other too.
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Giving Birth
Get married as young as you can, have as many children as possible and enjoy them!
You can also speak into their life and stay young with them.
Life is the classroom for eternalty.
Children have a way to speak to you about the truth the way u won't wanna hear from an adult.
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LET EVERY COUPLE MEET THE NEEDS OF ONE ANOTHER.
LET IT NOT BE FOR YOURSELF.
DO IT PART OF YOUR LIFESTYLE.
"YOU WILL BE PUT ON THE LAMP STAND THAT WILL LITE UP THE WHOLE HOUSE.
BE WILLING TO SERVE YOUR SPOUSE.
LOVING ANOTHER."
Amen
